Sunday, November 29, 2009

a home away from home for a weekend

Ani and I got on a train headed for Yugawara, where we would meet our host families for the weekend. We bundled up, because we had been told that Yugawara and Atami would be quite cold, but the train proved to be a bit warm, and filled with people, so we didn't sit for much of the hour long train ride.



When we got to the train station, our host moms greeted us and took us over to the Yugawara Community Center, where they host their Hippo Family Club meetings (the organization sponsoring this homestay). There, we introduced ourselves in English, in Japanese, and anything else we could speak. It was kind of interesting because they wanted me to explain how to introduce myself in Vietnamese, but it was hard to explain that it's complicated. A general introduction isn't something I'm particularly well versed in; I can speak conversationally... only. After that, we played a bunch of games, danced, sang songs, and it was all very cute and entertaining to watch the smaller children have fun and learn these foreign languages. It's very adorable to watch a pair of twins mumble their way through Spanish. Afterward, there was another potluck, where all the families brought food to eat. My host mom brought fried rice with dried shrimp (yum!) and a scrumptious looking almond cake (which I didn't get a chance to eat, but she said there was more at home).





During that time, my host father arrived and we made small chat with all the rest of the Hippo Family Club members. When it was time to go, we got in the family's car and each went our separate ways.



The house has three levels. On the entrance was the ground floor, where there was a toilet, several storage rooms, their tatami room, a dining room, the kitchen, and the ofuro. Upstairs were bedrooms, and downstairs was their guestroom where I was going to sleep for the night. Just to note, the room is painted with glow in the dark paint, so that when the lights go out, the room lights up with stars. It's freaking amazing.



My host mom and host father talked a lot about Hippo and their own exchanges with other families, including the times they went to Russia and Korea. It seemed pretty exciting for them to be so global, and enjoy such languages. When the daughter of the family arrived from school (on a Saturday!), we went out for a drive and a walk around Atami.










We stopped by a small Korean restaurant where the family picked up some nice side dishes <3! We went back home and made gyoza as a family. I took a bath in their traditional ofuro... It's odd. First you do your standard shower, and then you soak. It's nice and peaceful, but it would take me a long time to get used to doing that as a daily tradition. After I got out of the bath, we had dinner, which was the gyoza we made, some curry rice, and the side dishes.



After dinner, we watched some Japanese game shows, where contestants had to pick a phrase which had two different kanji sets to match two ideas. ... that wasn't one I could really participate in. However, there was an addition and a multiplication game where it was wicked fun. Following the game shows, we watched a drama-special called Kekkon (meaning marriage), where I had no subtitles but really had to focus on listening and understanding what the hell was going on. At the end, I felt reasonably satisfied and we all went off to bed.

The following day, we had a traditional-ish Japanese breakfast, with rice and miso soup. Afterwards, we headed out to see my host mom at work at the local health fair. She was helping with a series of tests to see how "old" your body was in comparison to your actual age. I scored pretty low, since the past few days had taken their toll on me... But then we went around the town with my little sister and host father. We went to a farm with apparently the best soft-serve around it was pretty delicious!




And then we saw animals :D




We stopped at a cheap hotel lunch buffet before heading back to the house to rest a bit before I would have to head back to Yokohama.



At the train station, they gave me a bunch of food, to make sure that I was well fed (which I greatly appreciated), and then we stuck our feet in the public hot spring. Holy fuuuuck was it boiling. It was good for your skin, but man did it hurt like a m-f-cker.



After that, I got on the train and headed home. I really needed a good night's sleep after that :] It was fun and I got to practice a lot of Japanese, but other than that, I dunno if I could do another very short-term stay. It'd need to be a decent amount of time before I could really get Japanese to be a natural form of communication (though I am getting better at it).

Friday, November 27, 2009

thanksgiving; we're thankful for each other

Since Sri, Kimberly, Han, and I weren't at home for Thanksgiving this year, we made our own celebration, inviting pretty much everyone we knew to a big potluck party. It wasn't exactly the kind of turkey, mashed potatoes, and pumpkin pie sort of affair, but it was really nice to have so much different kinds of food, stuff that people made out of their own hard work for us to eat.

And then we had fun :]




Me looking stupid:


Overall, it was an awesome night. We stayed up late, talking, having a good time... but we stayed up a bit too late and I had my homestay in Atami the next day, so I had to kick people out so I could sleep :].

Monday, November 23, 2009

motomachi, where walking makes you feel like christmas is coming

John, Lucy, Judy, Mike, and I were up for trying another local eatery from my guidebook, and we settled on Shiomizuka Garden in Motomachi. It was easy enough to find, but its rather "bohemian" feel was relaxing and the atmosphere was perfectly Christmas-esque without being overbearing. I had their lunch set, which was outstanding. Grilled chicken, gia gio, and other small bits of goodness added with an amazingly heartwarming chicken soup rounded out the entrees. A heavy chocolate cake finished off our stomachs and prepped us for a nice stroll through Motomachi.





Afterward, as we walked through Motomachi, we saw a lot of very Western designer stores, and very lively crowds hustling and bustling. Couples brought their dogs, wearing small sweaters and footies. The cobbled roads were very much a nice touch to the area, and the best part was how subdued the Christmas decorations were; they didn't slap us in the face. There weren't jingles jingling from November to the end of December. But the crispness of winter air and the vibrancy of Motomachi made us all miss home a bit for the holidays.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

kawasaki daishi and the mystery of the eaten fish

For this meeting with my Mitsui V-Net partner, he thought that Kawasaki Daishi, the second or third most popular temple for New Year's celebrations would be a good place to visit. This was also during the Shichi-Go-San Festival, which is a celebration of children who are 3, 5, or 7, depending on their gender. The walk up to Kawasaki Daishi is filled with stalls of vendors, many selling freshly made Japanese candies, similar to taffy but a bit harder once it's sat for a while. There were also plenty of small touristy goods, which are easy enough to pass now.






Afterward, Mr. Sakai treated me out to some robatayaki, where you can choose a fish and they'll grill it for you. On a slow day, the cook will stick the roasted fish onto an oar and serve it to you directly. Sadly, this was a busy day, but the fish was delicious. The woman who was sitting next to me was so surprised that I could use chopsticks so well for a gaijin... clearly she didn't notice that I was indeed Asian.